Until recently, the debate about the existence of the G-spot did not end until an American scientist put an end to various speculations by examining the corpse of an elderly woman. He found that the desired erogenous zone was located on the upper wall of the vagina and felt like a walnut. If this point is stimulated, a woman reaches orgasm in a short time, with adequate and continuous stimulation, the time is reduced to 10 seconds (in rare cases).
Unfortunately, the G-spot has not been fully explored. Some questions are still unanswered: is it present in all women, and if so, can anyone achieve orgasm from its stimulation?
How to start your G-spot search
Your partner can find the G-spot, or you can find it yourself. To do this, you need to insert two or three fingers into the vagina and apply a special lubricant to them beforehand. After inserting your fingers into the vagina, you should bend them up to touch the upper wall.
Ways to stimulate the G-spot
Insert the lubricated fingers into the vagina, gently press the vulva with the other hand, move the fingers inserted into the vagina up and down, while you can pay attention to the clitoris, for sharpness. You can do this without the help of a partner. You can also find the point with the help of a vibrator.
If your partner's penis naturally bends slightly upwards, there will be several positions that encourage stimulation, even the classic missionary is included in the bill. Another simple and effective position is with the woman on top and the partners facing each other.
What is a jet orgasm
When the G-spot is stimulated, a girl can also experience a jet orgasm. During such an orgasm, a special liquid is released from the girl's vagina. To achieve such an orgasm, the partner must insert his lubricated fingers and move them up and down the wall of the vagina, this must be done carefully so as not to cause pain. Before that, have your partner help you relax with a massage with massage oil. The girl should lie on her back with her knees bent.
During a jet orgasm, the urge to urinate occurs, but this sensation quickly passes and the desired pleasure arrives. Still, for your self-confidence, it is recommended to go to the toilet before the procedure.
If you didn't have an orgasm the first time, don't be discouraged, everything has its time. Sometimes girls get results only after 2 weeks of training. You just have to learn to relax and fully trust your partner.
Where is the G-spot in women and how to find it? These interesting questions concern almost every modern person. Women want to receive indelible and incomparable sensations caused by the stimulation of this zone. Men want to please their partners, but at the same time, they increase their self-esteem as talented and experienced lovers. In this article, we have tried to describe in as much detail as possible where to look for this magic point.
The female G-spot is located on the front wall of the vagina, approximately 3-5 cm from its entrance. However, the location range of the point is 1-10 cm, moreover, it is far from always located in the middle of the wall. The point is often on the right or left side.
Finding the G-spot is not so easy, but the result will pay off all your efforts. The most important thing is to remember that in a calm state, the mysterious point is hardly noticeable and does not exceed the size of a pea. When excited, it swells, doubles in size and becomes palpable. The point, or rather the zone, has a slightly rough surface and somewhat resembles goosebumps or walnut shells, in contrast to the smooth texture of the main part of the sheath.
So let's start looking for the magic point:
- First, do everything you can to create strong excitement in your partner. Ideally, try to bring her to orgasm. It is best to probe the moment before or immediately after the start of the point.
- The most comfortable position for searching is the position in which the partner lies on his back with his legs apart. Carefully insert two fingers into the vagina, feel the area under the pubic bone. However, remember that digital statistics about the location of the G-spot are not axioms, and for different women, the treasure zone may not be located in exactly the same places.
- In almost all the fair sex, this part of the vagina is characterized by reduced sensitivity. Therefore, in order to detect it, it is often necessary to press quite hard and actively on the examined area. Ask the woman to suggest which direction you should move.
- If you feel the urge to urinate while you're looking for a partner, you're probably on the right track. When you press the G-spot, this reaction, along with the discomfort, appears in many women. Don't worry, these types of feelings go away pretty quickly and are replaced by feelings of increasing excitement.
- The G-spot looks like a small hard lump, no bigger than a pea. Try holding it with two fingers. Then start rhythmically squeezing and twisting the knot, pressing and releasing, being strong and gentle at the same time to avoid damaging the sensitive vaginal mucosa.
Everyone around them talks about the G-spot, but few talk about the other equally important erogenous zones of a woman. If you learn to awaken these points, orgasm will no longer escape from under your nose.
Erogenous zones in women
Many people have heard more than once about the wonderful properties of the special G point of the female body, but not many understand what is hidden behind this name, and very few know about the existence of at least 3 special points, the stimulation of which gives women particularly pleasant feelings. The same erogenous zones in women are called points A, K, U, that is, the entire "female alphabet" consists of the acronym G-A-K-U.
Let's take a closer look at what these erogenous zones are on the female body, where they are, how they can be stimulated, and what effect a woman gets from stimulation.
The G-spot is located on the front wall of the vagina, at a depth of 4-5 centimeters from the entrance of the vagina. This hypersensitive area of the vagina, 1. 5-2 cm, contains 600 nerve endings per square millimeter, in contrast to other areas that contain up to 30 nerve endings. In other words, stimulating this zone gives 20 times more pleasure. In women, this erogenous zone can be easily stimulated with a finger or a small vibrator that has the right purpose and shape.
Where are the most erogenous zones for women?
The dot
Where is a woman's erogenous zone, the so-called A point? You will find this intimate point in the front part of the vagina, between the bladder and the cervix, a 2-4 cm super-sensitive area similar to the G. Due to strong excitement, the tissues surrounding the uterus contract strongly, and the male penis can penetrate almost 3 centimeters into the vagina. on his neck. In addition, this zone does not become hypersensitive after orgasm, which allows you to prolong the pleasure.
K point
The K-point is located on the back wall of the vagina and this point is stimulated during anal sex, provided that the wall between the rectum and the vagina does not thicken too much. The stimulation of this zone, unlike the previous two zones, does not give the partner emotionally colorful experiences, love and affection, but a particularly sharp and lively orgasm.
Point U
What other erogenous zones do women have? The U point is a soft erectile tissue that is also more infused with nerve endings than the surrounding tissue. It is located in the vestibule of the urethra. During the stimulation of the U-point, a strong sexual desire and the desire to urinate occur at the same time. In this case, the effect affects not only the U-point, but also Skene's glands, the woman's so-called "prostate gland", which is located in the spongy body of the urethra. These zones are unique for each woman and can be located at the exit of the urethra, in the middle of the canal or on the neck itself. Their location is an important factor in terms of the sensitivity of the U-point, during normal sexual life the U-point is not affected, so it must be stimulated with separate, circular finger movements. In women, simultaneous stimulation of the G- and U-spots sometimes leads to so-called "spritz" and multiple orgasms.
There is an opinion that the main male organ is the phallus. All erogenous zones are concentrated on it. In fact, in the body of every man there is another powerful sexual tool that actively participates in all sexual intercourse. This refers to the prostate, or in other words, the prostate.
In a fit of passion, few remember the presence of the prostate. And completely in vain. He, as the main male genital organ, is very sensitive to stimulation. Some sexologists place it on the female G-spot, as the competent effect on the prostate gives unforgettable pleasure.
How to find this mysterious zone in a man's body? >
- Before you start looking for the treasure spot on your partner's body, ask them to go through a little preparation. Ideally, the man should clean the intestines and empty the rectum with an enema, which makes the massage of such an intimate place more aesthetic.
- Do everything you can to make your partner relax and trust you completely. His inner insecurity leads to the contraction of the sphincter muscle and the complete failure of the sexual attempt. Find out from the man if he really wants to be a part of it. Otherwise, instead of bright joy, you will feel only discomfort and pain.
- Cut your nails without mistakes. If you have extended nails, do not even try to start looking for the G-spot, as this is fraught with the appearance of microtrauma in the rectum of your loved one.
- Wash your hands thoroughly, not only before searching and finding the treasure point, but also after. Do not touch the man's genitals or genitals with the hand used during the search, and even better, use disposable gloves. In this way, you can protect yourself from various microorganisms from your partner's colon, which can lead to the development of inflammatory processes.
- Do not start looking for the prostate at the beginning of sexual intercourse. It is better to move it to the moment when you feel that the climax is about to begin. Otherwise, you can simply ruin your partner's sexual mood and even make him uncomfortable.
- Give your man an erotic massage, starting from the head and moving smoothly to the stomach and back. Special attention should be paid to the buttocks. He massages his partner with soft and gentle movements.
- Let the man lie on his back. In this case, you need to settle down between your legs and very gently and carefully insert your finger into your anus, while not forgetting to use petroleum jelly or a special lubricant. Move forward about 4-5 cm and try to feel a lump the size of a chestnut on the front wall of the intestine from the abdomen.
- Alternatively, you can ask your partner to take a knee-to-elbow position or lie on their side, preferably on their right side, with their knees pressed tightly against their stomach. This position not only makes it easier for you, but also allows a man to experience multiple orgasms. In this pose, the pelvic muscles are maximally relaxed.
A full sex life is a guarantee of good health, excellent mood, youth and family happiness. In order for both partners to get absolute pleasure from intimacy, you need to know how to find the ji point.
Stimulation of the erogenous zones enables both the man and his partner to reach orgasm.
They started talking about the fact that there is a special place - the ji point - in the middle of the last century. There is still no consensus on where the g-spot is. Women usually have no problem determining the coordinates.
This place is located on the front wall of the vagina - 3-5 cm from the entrance. We can see what the erogenous epicenter itself looks like in a special video. There are also photographs in which a special place looks like a small bean.
It is not necessary to study the video to recognize the ji point. This place feels good to the touch. If this area is stimulated, it will increase in size significantly (in some women several times).
Finding the erogenous point is not difficult at all, for this you need to feel the front wall of the vagina. This area will be rougher and rougher, which is not typical of the rest of the mucosa.
The easiest way to find the g-spot is when a woman is sexually aroused. This zone is less sensitive for all girls, so additional and active stimulation is required. To learn the practical techniques of such stimulation, you can watch the video.
During sexual intercourse, the g-pole is not stimulated, so some women have doubts about the presence of such a place. Each girl has her own. Therefore, to detect the presence of the ji microzone, one of the optimal postures must be selected.
These include the following provisions:
- behind partner;
- the girl assumes the rider's pose and leans back heavily.
Even a thorough study of a video or photo does not always help to find the answer, how to find the ji point? That doesn't mean your sex life will be any less impressive.
Point ji is truly a unique place. However, for most women, the emotional rather than the physiological sensations from sex dominate. Some girls note that they do not enjoy the stimulation of the erogenous g chakra at all.
The older the women, the less significant the use of the g factor to achieve orgasm. It should also be taken into account that, according to sexologists, finding the supererogenous point is only relevant for women who cannot experience orgasm at all.
How to determine the coordinates of a partner's ji point?
If the problem of the location of the ji area in women can be solved with a tactile method, then it is not difficult at all to find the partner's g-spot.
Finding such a place in the man's half is even easier, you don't even need an instructional video. The analogue of the ji point is the prostate gland.
There is such an erogenous place near the urethra from the bottom of the bladder (you can see it in the video). To get to a person's "spot", you need to use the anus. In practice, it looks like this: you gently insert your finger into the anus and find a slight bump on the side of the abdomen. This will be the g zone. The anus is located about four to five centimeters away. from the entrance.
Not all men will like such unusual sexual activity from women. Some representatives of the stronger sex negatively evaluate such attempts by women to find a place for erogenous stimulation.
Another important note: the partner should not have long, sharp nails. If you managed to find the location of the g-zone, then it is better to use a special lubricant for stroking. All these operations must be done very delicately.
If partners decide to find a unique g zone, then it is advisable to use other methods. You can watch the dedicated video above.
By mutual agreement, try to find the treasured object called the "g-spot" through tactile research. For some couples, the magical g transforms intimate life, making it even richer and more vibrant.
Lovers can find real joy by discovering each other's bodies!